unfortunately, you'll have to make it "public" in order to get it to work embedded in your blog. You can make it private for friends and family but they'll have to be set up in your youtube contacts and already members of youtube. (kinda like flickr) ... I learned this stuff the hard way with my July 05 Mommies message board. We have a love-hate relationship with youtube.

Interesting. I thought it might work like Flickr, where you can still show private pictures, they just don't get shown publicly on Flickr. I guess I'll make it public.